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Finding the right counsellor to support you is incredibly important.

Finding the right counsellor to support you is incredibly important. You want someone who is professionally trained in supporting your specific issue and who feels comfortable for you to talk with. Research has consistently shown that the relationship you have with your counsellor contributes more to you making change than any other factor.1 Relationship is considered the single most curative component in therapy.2 It might surprise you that your relationship with your counsellor has so much influence on you making change. But, take a moment to consider how much you respond to support from someone you don’t genuinely like or respect. Clients attribute their positive therapy outcomes to therapists3 who are “warm, attentive, interested, understanding, and respectful”.4

Our team is made up of highly skilled counsellors who go through rigorous hiring practices to ensure they meet the Lavender Counselling standard for care. As a group, we value the client-counsellor relationship so highly that all of our counsellors offer a complimentary conversation (20 minutes) so you can get a sense of the counsellor and ensure that it is a good fit. If you don’t feel like you connect, we welcome you to do a complimentary conversation with as many of our counsellors as you wish in order to find just the right counsellor for you. If 20 minutes doesn’t feel long enough for you to get a sense of the counsellor, you can book a full 50 minute session and we will pro-rate your fee to half price to ensure you get the benefit of our complimentary conversation.

Take a look at our individual bios and pay attention to which counsellor you seem to be drawn to. We look forward to meeting you.

Registered Clinical Counsellors

Jenn Moudahi

MA, RCC, CCC

  • Teens 14+ | Adults | Clinical Consultation | FNHA
  • Parenting
  • Pregnancy, Miscarriage, Infertility
  • Life Transistions, Self-Growth
  • Grief and Loss
  • Trauma, PTSD

Andrea Colliar

M.Ed., RCC, CCC

  • Teens | Adults | Couples
  • Anxiety & Depression
  • Parenting & Relationship Issues
  • Trauma & PTSD
  • Grief & Loss

Jane Whitlaw

M.Ed., RCC

  • Teens 17+ | Adults | FNHA | Clinical Supervision/Consultation
  • Complex Trauma CPTSD
  • Attachment
  • Relationships
  • Anxiety
  • Addictions
  • PTSD

Andrew Peterson

MA, CCC

  • 6+ | Adults
  • Depression/Anxiety
  • Self-Harm
  • Neurodivergence
  • Gender Identity
  • Stress/Burnout
  • CVAP

Caitlin Zalm

MCP, RCC

  • Adults
  • ADHD/Neurodiversity
  • Anxiety/Depression
  • Trauma/PTSD
  • Self-worth/Not good enough
  • Gender Identity

Hannah Nguyen

M.Ed., RCC, CCC

  • Children | Teens | Adults
  • Anxiety & Depression
  • Intercultural concerns
  • Relationship & Boundaries
  • Teachers & Administrators
  • CVAP

Heidi Maxwell

MA, RCC

  • 13+ | Adults
  • Post-Trauma
  • Meaning & Purpose
  • Emotional & Somatic Work
  • Gender Identity
  • Grief & Loss
  • CVAP

Chantel Van Vliet

MC, RCC

  • Teens | Adults | Couples
  • Chronic Pain
  • Chronic Illness
  • Infertility
  • Womans Health
  • CVAP

Jo Sawa

MC, RCC, RSW

  • 13+ Teens | Adults
  • Anxiety & Depression
  • Eating Disorders
  • Overwhelm, Stree & Burnout
  • Identity Exploration & Self-Development
  • Parent-Teen Conflict

Brittany Lasanen

MA, RCC

  • Adults | Clinical Consultation
  • Feeling inadequate
  • Perfectionism
  • Grief & Loss (pet loss)
  • Fear & Overwhelm
  • CVAP

Allison Esau

M.Ed., RCC, CCC

  • Teens | Adults | Clinical Consultation
  • Challenges for Teenagers
  • LGBTQ+ Issues
  • Religious /Spiritual Trauma
  • Regulating Emotions
  • CVAP

Selena Light

MA, RCC

  • 15+ | Adults | Couples
  • Interpersonal/Familial Issues
  • Depression/Anxiety
  • Life Transitions
  • Self Esteem Issues
  • Emotion Dysregulation
  • Grief & Loss

John Murray

MA, RCC, CCC, CT

  • Adults | Couples
  • Clinical Consultation
  • Trauma, PTSD
  • Chronic pain
  • Suicidal thinking
  • Grief & loss

Kate Mackay

M.Ed., RCC

  • Teens | Adults
  • Academic/school related issues
  • Anxiety & Depression
  • Emotional distress
  • Relationship issues

Carolynn Turner

MA, RCC, CCC, CT

  • Only working with
  • Counsellors
  • Supervision, Supervision of Supervision,
  • Consent Agreements

Ali Alexander

MA, RCC, CCC

  • Teens | Adults | Clinical Consultation
  • Sports related stress & anxiety
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Trauma
  • CVAP

Jenn Moudahi

MA, RCC, CCC

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Sometimes in life we experience a loss of connection with ourselves and those around us, leaving us feeling unfulfilled and looking for change. Perhaps you’re feeling overwhelmed,  distressed, numb, or detached. Maybe you bounce around feeling many of these things, frustrated to be stuck on an emotional rollercoaster. 

Counselling can help with navigating and making sense of these emotions, moving you towards connection, clarity, and purpose. In our sessions together, I commit to creating an environment of warmth and acceptance. I encourage curiosity and openness. And I believe that you are the expert of your story.

My path to counselling was a winding adventure. I grew up dancing and am truly at home in the dance world; previously teaching and performing as a semi-professional dancer. However, this lifestyle wasn’t a good fit for me, so I shifted into a Registered Massage Therapy career—the human body amazes me! Aside from my clinical work, I taught and supervised massage therapy students at Vancouver Career College and assisted with continuing education courses for RMTs. But…I felt like I was missing an important part of the human experience. Turns out, I don’t just love the biology of the human body, I love PEOPLE and everything we encompass. I completed my MACP and have found another place that I am at home…here at Lavender Counselling. In addition to 1-on-1 counselling, I enjoy leading workshops and psychoeducational groups, and have co-authored an Advanced Empathy group for counsellors and Burnout workshop for health professionals. Currently, I am grateful to engage in many passions; working as a counsellor, teaching dance fitness, and authoring children’s books. You can also find me reading or crafting, exploring BC’s beautiful outdoors with my husband and kids, or playing board games a little too competitively. 

I offer counselling for individuals 14+ looking for support in various areas such as: parenting and pregnancy, miscarriage and infertility, stress and life transitions (eg. becoming a parent, pursuing new passions/changing careers, or any change in your life), trauma and PTSD, grief and loss, emotional distress or numbness, and personal development and growth. I would love to meet you and find out if we’re a good fit! Staying connected to my own Indigenous background, I am delighted to be a Mental Health Provider with First Nations Health Authority. If you are able to access support through FNHA, please send me an email to confirm availability and discuss pre-approval. Rate: $165/ 50min Session

Location

Office 1 - #101 8047 199 St

Andrea Colliar

M.Ed., RCC, CCC

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Life often has a way of reminding us that hard as we may try, we are not in control of how it goes. Life can be like the waves in the sea, unpredictable, sometimes huge and overwhelming or static and seemingly lifeless with no end in sight. In my past days as an infrequent surfer, I remember how hard it was to stand there in the ocean with a massive board, trying to gauge and steady myself for the roaring waves approaching the shore. At first they all seemed frightening, fast, slow, large, small, one after the other. With practice and guidance, I slowly became aware of how I could be and what I could do to feel like I wasn’t just surviving the oncoming waves, but feeling a sense of flow and groundedness, even in water. Similarly, counselling can be a safe place to slow down and unpack the waves of your life. A place where you no longer feel alone with the weight of suffering and can feel more connected with how you feel, what you need, and who you truly are.
I work with teens, adults, couples, parents, and families in navigating some of life’s most difficult challenges such as anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, thoughts of suicide, grief, loss, difficulties in relationships with classmates, coworkers, and loved ones and much more including the experience of being neurodivergent as an individual or within a couple or family. With heartfelt compassion, nonjudgement, and respect, I work collaboratively with each individual, couple, and family to build a space that feels safe to explore their inner world and relationships with others. In my trauma-informed, attachment-based, and person-centred approach, we build upon your strengths and at your pace, explore and shift unhelpful patterns. We work towards the things that you want to see in your life that may include feeling more aware of your emotions, improving communication with yourself and others, living more authentically in the seat of who you are, and deepening your connection with yourself, others, and the world around you.
In my work with couples, I am honoured to work with all couples, many of whom are often at a juncture in the road of their relationship. This may include couples who want to reflect on their relationship to refine how they move forward, discussions about marriage, having or adopting children, navigating the difficulties of family life; extended family dynamics impacting the couple; diagnoses and how they’re experienced in their relationship; past issues in the relationship that are impacting them in the present; contemplating the future of their relationship and what that may look like, what the structure may be like, and so much more. I welcome all couples just as they are, whether content, satisfied, frustrated, fraught with conflict, silent, or distant from one another. I support couples in further understanding where they are at in the present and where they want to be in the future.
With families, I work to understand the interactions between family members. As a system of people, families are interconnected in many ways, for example, what one person in a family does impacts the others and vice versa. I support families in increasing their understanding of one another, how they influence each other, and practical aspects like communication, family rules (spoken and unspoken), and much more. Family therapy may include 2-3 members of a family and may include extended family members as well. Family therapy can help decrease conflict, improve communication, process life events like death, illness, or mental health diagnoses that impact the family, and enhance overall wellbeing within the family. Family therapy is unlike individual therapy in many ways, feel free to connect with me to learn more about the process.
I am a registered clinical counsellor (RCC, 22835) with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC). I hold a Master of Education in Counselling Psychology from Simon Fraser University. I have over 10 years experience in both the public and private sector working with adults and families, and a background in child development and family life. In working with teens, parents, couples, and individuals, I provide compassionate and evidence-based care from therapeutic models that are trauma-informed, relational, somatic and integrative of attachment theory and neuroscience.
My areas of focus include: anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, neurodiversity, grief, loss, parenting, relationship issues, and family dynamics.
I would be honoured to join you in the waters of your life, whether stormy or static, whether you are a teen or adult,  individual, couple, parents, or a family, book your free 20 minute consultation to further see if we’d be a good fit. I know how tough it can be to find a counsellor and to share your story. It would be my privilege to get to know you and support you towards your experience of wellness and meaning.
Individual & Couples $150/ 50min Session 

Phone

604-455-8399

Location

Office 1 - #101 8047 199 St

Jane Whitlaw

M.Ed., RCC

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Hi. I’m Jane and I am so glad you are here!
First, I want to acknowledge the courage it may have taken to begin looking into supportive services. It is so important that the therapist you choose to work alongside feels like a good fit for you and you are already taking a huge first step by exploring this profile. Welcome!
Below I will offer a brief introduction to who I am and what you may experience when working with me.
I am a Clinical Counsellor (RCC), registered with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC). In practice, I prioritize the therapeutic relationship and will seek to understand your life as you know it. I am not here to tell you to be different or to show up in another way, I am here to support you in developing your own understanding of who you are and what may have influenced the ways you view and operate in this world.
Most folx who choose to work with me are seeking some kind of change; they may know that something isn’t working for them but have difficulty understanding why or how to create something different. Together we may compassionately explore your experiences, seeking to make sense of what feels stuck, and come up with a collaborative plan to support you in moving toward a life that feels congruent with who you authentically know yourself to be.
Importantly, I want to note that maintaining a trauma-informed perspective is integral to my practice, and I approach every new client with a deep understanding of how early life experiences have the potential to impact current, day-to-day functioning. How we internalize our experiences, the ways in which we process the world, and how we use that information to help us navigate our relationships, are unique processes. It is of utmost importance to me to meet you where you’re at, doing what I can to understand your world as you’ve experienced it.
Counselling With Me
My personal life experiences have informed my philosophies as a practicing psychotherapist, and I have been fortunate to participate in a variety of enhanced training opportunities and work alongside folx with diverse backgrounds and life histories. Each of these has lend to the development of an extensive toolbox; one that we will access in accordance with your individual needs, interests, and personal goals.
I primarily work with young adults and adults (17+), both individually and in groups, and I offer phone, virtual, and in-person sessions. I also offer clinical supervision and consultation, personal and professional development coaching, and trauma-informed, psycho-education for allied health and healing professionals.
While foundationally I follow what’s called a person-centered, humanistic framework, my specializations in trauma, attachment, and relational challenges, fit well with the integration of therapeutic tools that are rooted in modalities including experiential, body-centered, cognitive, and relational practices. As such, folx who choose to work with me may have opportunity to experiment with body-orientated and somatic practice, mindfulness, nature-based psychotherapy, equine-partnered psychotherapy, self-compassion, cognitive and solution-focused skill development, and so on.
I often support folx with concerns related to:
- Complex and/or relational traumas- Attachment wounds- Relationship difficulties- Anxiety- PTSD- Substance use and/or addictions- Low mood- Intense emotions and/or regulating emotions- Stress- Career and life transitions
Professional Development and Training
I am a graduate of the UBC Counselling Psychology master’s program, however my training and exposure to the work did not begin or stop there. My working career in the social services and helping professions began 2005, and I completed an undergraduate degree in psychology and many professional-development trainings and certifications since then. Some trainings that may be of interest include:- Somatic Attachment Psychotherapy Training – Lisa Mortimore & Stacy Jensen – in process- Clinical Trauma Professional Training, Level I and II – Janina Fisher, PhD. – in process- Equine-Assisted Personal Development Coach Certification – EAL Canada – 2024- Land-Based Wellness – Melanie Bazin, MSW, RSW – 2024- Leadership Mindset Coaching Program – Darren Kaulius – 2024- Explorations in Equine Facilitated Wellness – Generation Farms - Deborah Marshall, MA – 2018- Foundations & Focus in Equine Facilitated Wellness - Chiron's Way - Sandra Wallin, MA - 2021- Trauma-Informed Practice, Level I and II – Alyson Quinn, MSW & Trish Walsh, BA - 2019- Trauma informed Care – Crisis & Trauma Resource Institute, Nathan Gerbrandt, MSW - 2019- Healing Triggers, Limiting Beliefs, & Intergenerational Trauma - Trish Walsh - 2021- Indigenous Cultural Safety Training - Provincial Health Services Authority - 2021- Blending Western Practices with Traditional Aboriginal Approaches to Healing - Elder Little Brown Bear (Ernest Matton), BEd. - 2021- Understanding and Supporting BPD – Crisis & Trauma Resource Institute, Sheri Coburn, MSW - 2020- SMART recovery facilitator training – smartrecoverytraining.org - 2019- Compassion in Therapy Summit - 2021- Mindfulness Counselling Strategies – Crisis & Trauma Resource Institute – Robbie Chesick, MA - 2017- Mindful Self-Compassion Core Skills Training – Kristin Neff, PhD. & Chris Germer, PhD. - 2019
Summary
While credentials and training are one thing, I believe it is most important to have a solid, safe, and trusting relationship within the therapeutic setting.
I want to understand your world as you have made sense of it. While I may provide you with guidance, offer observation, and ask questions to elicit a particular thought process, my position is never to tell you how to live your life or begin to suggest that I could know you better than you know yourself. I’m going to meet you with a compassionate stance; one in which you know you are supported, listened to, cared for, and not alone. Together, we will work collaboratively to assess your goals for counselling and to unpack your concerns in a way that will help you move along your healing path.
Again, it is so important that the therapist you decide to work with feels like someone you connect with and I am grateful for the time you have allotted to learning more about me. I can’t wait for the opportunity to get to know you. Take good care until then and I will see you soon!Rate: $170/ 50min session

Phone

604-455-8399

Andrew Peterson

MA, CCC

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Life can feel overwhelming when anxiety takes over, depression lingers, or ADHD makes daily tasks feel like mountains. You or your child might feel restless, stuck in spirals of self-doubt, or simply exhausted from trying so hard to keep up. Big emotions can show up as irritability, withdrawal, or burnout—and it's tough to explain it all to others. You're doing your best, but it still feels like too much. You want to feel calm, focused, and more like yourself again—but you're not sure where to start.
As a therapist who specializes in anxiety, depression, self-harm, and neurodivergence, I help children and adults untangle emotional overwhelm and reconnect with a sense of clarity and ease. My approach is warm, curious, and collaborative—offering practical tools alongside space to understand what’s beneath the surface.
Therapy can be a space to pause, reflect, and begin making sense of what feels hard to carry alone. If you're curious about how I can support you or your child, I offer a free 15-minute consultation to help you decide if we’re a good fit. Send me an email to get started—I’d be glad to connect and answer any questions you have.

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 Street & #506 402 W Pender Vancouver

Caitlin Zalm

MCP, RCC

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When I reached out to a counsellor for the first time, I felt stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, and utterly exhausted. I was struggling to move forward. It took a couple of tries to find the right fit, but when I did, it was feeling truly seen, understood, and trusted that helped me develop the self-understanding and insight to navigate those next steps.
I believe deeply in each person's resilience and capacity to meet life’s challenges, adversity, pain, and unpredictability. However, we can become blocked when we are disconnected from ourselves and our inner wisdom. My goal is to create a safe space that fosters embodiment and presence, where you feel supported to explore your experience with curiosity and kindness. My work is trauma-informed, grounded in a Person-Centred and strength-based approach, and incorporates an attachment lens, body-orientated work, mindfulness, and self-compassion. My purpose as a counsellor is to support clients as they develop a sense of clarity, authenticity, and ownership on their unique path, whatever that may be, so they can experience a more fulfilling life and come to a place of greater peace within themselves.
Supporting others to develop their potential, self-worth, and sense of empowerment has always been my passion. However, it was my experience working in a group home, family shelter, and residential treatment centre for addictions that inspired and motivated me to pursue counselling. I am privileged to have earned my Master of Counselling Psychology degree from Adler University and become a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC).
I deeply respect and honour my clients’ personal choices and recognize that it takes courage, strength, and self-love to begin your journey to healing. I would welcome the chance to meet you, listen to your story, and see if I am the right fit for you. I currently work with adults who are facing a range of challenges, including:
ADHD/Neurodiversity
Anxiety/Depression
Boundaries
Trauma/PTSD
Self-worth/Feelings of not good enough
Distress/Emotion regulation
Life transition
Shame
Self growth/Personal development
* I do not work with couples

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 Street

Hannah Nguyen

M.Ed., RCC, CCC

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I am honoured to witness and to journey alongside with each client that I meet. As a counsellor at Lavender Counselling, I am humbled by the strength and resiliency that each individual possesses. I value the collaborative and relational nature of counselling, and will work with you from a place of warmth, non-judgement, and acceptance. I look forward to engaging with you in this work, and in walking alongside you in this journey.
At times, life transitions and change can become too challenging to navigate alone. Before becoming a counsellor, I grew up struggling in trying to navigate between different social groups and environments. I commonly experienced a tension in how my various cultural and group memberships had me experiencing connection as well as alienation from others as well as from myself. I was inspired to become a counsellor as I heard from others – friends, family members, the children, youth, and adults I had worked alongside – sharing their own stories of navigating through life’s challenges, their emotional scars, and in triumphing despite hurdles and injustices. As a counsellor, I endeavor to create a safe and welcoming space for you to explore and share your own story of struggle and triumph.
Before landing at Lavender Counselling, I had received my Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from the University of Victoria, and had completed my Post-Baccalaureate Diploma in Counselling and Human Development from Simon Fraser University. I received my Master of Education in Counselling Psychology from the University of British Columbia. In my work as a counsellor, I have worked with clients primarily through a relational, humanistic, and person-centered lens. I have continued to work in expanding my competency in areas such as trauma-informed practices, as well as in child and youth counselling. I have completed workshops and trainings in: Trauma-Informed Practice Level 1 & 2; Helping Children Heal from Complex Trauma (Children’s Foundation); in working with Trauma Exposed Professionals (Warrior Health); and in Play Therapy 1 & 2 (Justice Institute of British Columbia).
With warmth, I welcome you to Lavender Counselling. I look forward to being able to meet with you, and in hearing your story.

Location

Office 1 - #101 8047 199 St

Heidi Maxwell

MA, RCC

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Are you looking for a therapist who isn't afraid to talk about the very difficult parts of you? Maybe you have long-term trauma that hasn't been addressed, or maybe there are aspects of yourself that feel too shameful to speak about. With warmth and compassion, I will help you to address these parts of yourself and help you integrate them in a way that is trauma-informed and sensitive to your needs. Together we will discover how to work with your emotions and develop a trusting and grounded relationship with yourself.
I work with clients with concerns such as post-trauma, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, life transitions, values-alignment, emotional development, and matters related to self-esteem, confidence, and empowerment. I am LGBTQ2+ affirming. My theoretical alignment is person-centered (PCT), emotion-focussed (EFT) and focussing-oriented (FOT).
I welcome you to come exactly as you are: broken, fragile, confused, numb or confident, self-assured and triumphant. My hope that you come to realize you are essentially good and worthy just as you are.$150/session 

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 Street

Chantel Van Vliet

MC, RCC

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There is immense change that can occur through being heard and seen and I believe that every person is deserving of such a space, especially when we are faced with obstacles and challenges in life.

I offer counselling for adults, teens/tweens, and couples, with a specialization in chronic pain, chronic illness, infertility, and supporting caregivers. Other areas I work with include: women’s health, depression, anxiety, life transitions/stress, first responders and sex therapy/ sexuality.

Living with chronic pain, illness, or infertility can be a debilitating and confusing experience that not only wreaks havoc on you emotionally and physically, but it can leave you feeling invalidated and invisible. It can make you feel like you no longer have any choice over what happens to you, or that your choice was not even considered, whether it be medical treatment or personally. You might feel weighed down by an array of emotions such as sadness, anger, hopelessness, or anxiety, and at other times it can make you feel not much at all, stricken by a sense of emptiness, feeling lost or stuck.

As a caregiver you might be yearning for a space where you canbe truly heard in your experience whether it be to explore burnout, discuss feelings of isolation, or coming to terms with what it means to take care of someone who is sick or no longer the person you use to know.

For whatever reason you find yourself here, I offer a space where you will feel deeply seen and understood. As you are the expert of your story, my approach stems from a place of curiosity and open-mindedness. In the space we create together, I will honor your story, allowing space for any emotions, thoughts or physical experiences to be felt and gently explored.

My lived experience, as well as my volunteering in the support groups and support line at Pain BC, have provided me an opportunity to develop a multidimensional understanding of chronic pain and illness and how to support this population. Moreover, I devoted my capstone to better understanding the mental health impact of infertility in females, which has shaped my counselling perspective.

Through my own experiences with counselling, I recognize the impact that talking to a counsellor can have and hope to provide similar benefits to others. In my free time I enjoy spending time with my adorable cat Nyah, and my loud and large family, which includes our weekly family dinners.

I recognize that it takes a lot of courage to not only start counselling but share your life story with a counsellor. I look forward to exploring your story together.

$145.00 per session

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 St

Jo Sawa

MC, RCC, RSW

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Jo Sawa (She/her)
Counselling is a deeply personal journey — a space to slow down, unpack your experiences, and reconnect with the deeper parts of yourself. It takes real courage to show up and allow yourself to be vulnerable.
Perhaps you’ve been carrying the weight of an inner critic, or there are parts of you you’ve kept hidden out of fear, shame, or simply not knowing where to start. Whatever brings you here, know that you are welcome — just as you are. Together, we can gently bring those hidden parts into the light with curiosity and compassion, making sense of what’s been keeping you stuck. Often, it’s the small inner shifts that lead to the most meaningful and lasting change.
As a relational trauma therapist, I have the privilege of supporting teens and adults as they heal and grow — helping them reconnect with their authentic voice and inner wisdom. My work supports those navigating anxiety, depression, eating disorders, burnout, identity or cultural exploration, life transitions, questions of meaning and purpose, parent–teen conflict, relationship challenges, and attachment injuries. I offer a warm, compassionate, and non-judgmental space to explore what’s bringing you into therapy.
My practice focuses on somatic attachment psychotherapy, blending evidence-based approaches such as mindfulness, nervous system awareness, and body-based techniques with traditional talk therapy. I believe the body holds incredible intuitive wisdom — and when we slow down enough to listen, we can begin to truly sense and understand its messages. Tapping into this wisdom can become a powerful tool in the healing journey, unlocking deeper awareness, new insights, and enhancing emotional regulation.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors, holding a Master’s in Counselling and a Bachelor’s Degree in Social Work. With over a decade of experience in the public sector supporting children, teens, and families, I bring an anti-oppressive, trauma-informed, and culturally sensitive lens to my work. My practice continues to evolve through ongoing education and training in psychoanalytic, somatic, relational, neuroscience, and attachment-based therapies.
If something in these words resonates with you, I invite you to reach out. Human beings are wired for connection and belonging — we’re not meant to heal in isolation. I would be honoured to walk alongside you as we explore what’s possible together.
$150/session

Location

Office 1 - #101 8047 199 St

Brittany Lasanen

MA, RCC

 BookIn my own life, I continue to experience how connecting to my emotions in the presence of an empathetic and compassionate other can facilitate healing and growth. When I feel stuck, overwhelmed, or insecure, having a steady and patient presence by my side gives me the space to connect to myself, uncover what I need, and find my way forward. Thanks to these experiences, I wish to offer you a gentle and comforting space where you can settle in and connect with yourself. I also acknowledge that each person is different and while you may relate to my experiences, you may be searching for something else entirely. I wish to meet you where you are and move at your pace.
You may struggle with feeling too much, nothing at all, or feel that you are not good enough, bad, unworthy, or unlovable. You may have a sense that something is off but are perplexed about what that may be. Or you may feel content with life but are seeking ways to grow. My hope is that we can explore all this together in a space where you feel understood and accepted as we tend to your emotions, mind, and body.
I received my Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology from the University of British Columbia and Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from Simon Fraser University, where I also minored in Gender, Sexuality, and Women’s Studies. My approach to counselling has been deeply shaped by experiences at Women Against Violence Against Women (WAVAW), where I provided emotional support and resources to survivors of sexualized violence, and Looking Glass Foundation, where I provide consistent person-centered peer support for individuals with concerns around eating.
I have been struck by the creative ways people have for coping with painful experiences and inspired to learn practices to help individuals heal from trauma. In addition to trauma, I work individually with young adults and adults of varying intersecting identities on a range of concerns such as self-worth and insecurity, shame, grief, loss, transitions, fear, overwhelm, anxiety, depression, relationships, identity, boundaries, coping, growth, and healing. I have a special place in my heart for people who try so hard to be perfect but nonetheless feel not good enough, small, or insignificant.
At Lavender Counselling, I’ve co-developed our Relational Practices in Counselling Group for new counsellors who wish to join us for a day of learning and experiencing embodied approaches and practices. I'm so excited to being co-supervising students who intern with us at Lavender. I also provide individual counselling to counsellors, as we can only take clients as far as we’ve been ourselves.
I have completed the following workshops: Emotion Focused Therapy Level 1, Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy Levels 1 and 2, Externship in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Trauma-Informed Practice Levels 1 and 2, and Trauma Exposed Professionals. I integrate relational, trauma-informed, person-centered, body-oriented, emotion-focused, and experiential approaches that can bring your experiences alive and transform how you relate to others and parts of yourself.
A little about me: I absolutely love being warm and cozy and you can often find me bundled up on my couch with tea, blankets, a heating pad, a rice bag, and my reading socks. My dirty pleasure is watching reality TV and I enjoy reading, embroidery, board games, camping, walks in nature, remote date nights with my long-distance partner, and venturing about exploring cities and cafes. My joy in these endeavors is amplified when I am joined by my partner, friends, or family. I am delighted to connect with you and acknowledge that I work on the stolen traditional lands of the Katzie, Kwantlen, Matsqui, and Semiahmoo First Nations.
Brittany provides counselling services from both Lavender Counselling Langley and Vancouver offices.

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 Street & #506 402 W Pender Vancouver

Allison Esau

M.Ed., RCC, CCC

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When we meet you will be greeted with a warm and open presence. My hope is to create a space with you that feels accepting and supportive.
Sometimes people have a specific reason that brings them to counselling, like anxiety, depression, loss, or a personal transition. Other times it’s not as clear, and there’s a part of you that feels stuck and wants to know why. You might be hoping to find ways to feel more connected and fulfilled by the relationships in your life or to understand yourself in a new and meaningful way. Whatever it is, I’m glad you’re here and look forward to exploring your story.
I love being outdoors and value all that nature offers us for grounding, beauty, and adventure. I enjoy activities like hiking and yoga and appreciate that our bodies often seem to be communicating with us. I believe we all have an innate ability to heal and grow into the best versions of ourselves. We all deserve healing, connection, and belonging.
I have a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from the University of Lethbridge and a Master’s degree in Counselling Psychology from the University of British Columbia. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC), and a level 1 AEDP therapist.
My approach to counselling is relational, experiential, attachment based and trauma informed. I draw mainly from Person-Centred Therapy, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), and Focusing.
I work with adolescents and adults. I hold an inclusive practice that is open and welcoming to all individuals. I provide counselling services from both Lavender Counselling Langley and Vancouver offices.
I acknowledge that I have the honor to live, work and play in the unceded territory of the Coast Salish Peoples.

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Office 2 - #360 8029 199 Street Langley & 402 W Pender Vancouver

Selena Light

MA, RCC

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I believe that you are the expert in your own life.  My approach is centred on adapting to your specific needs and goals.  I’m dedicated to working together with you to craft tailored strategies aimed to fostering your growth and healing.
Therapy isn't a one-size-fits-all approach. However, one key element that I firmly believe in, regardless of the approach, is cultivating an authentic and trusting relationship between client and therapist. That's always my goal for you.
I specialize in working with individuals and families on a variety of relational issues, including conflict resolution and communication problems.  I have experience working with children, youth, young adults, adults, and families with concerns related to anxiety, depression, past trauma, interpersonal issues, shame, self-confidence, life transitions, self-identity, self-empowerment, meaning and purpose.
I hold a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology (BA) from Douglas College, and a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology (MA) from City University.  I am also a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) through the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors.
I acknowledge the apprehension that often accompanies the initial steps toward finding a therapist you can trust. It's a vulnerable and sometimes daunting process. Yet, it's also a testament to your courage, self-awareness, and commitment to personal growth. Taking those first steps toward therapy signifies a readiness to confront challenges, invest in self-improvement, and pursue a more rewarding life. It would be my privilege to accompany you on this journey.

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 Street

John Murray

MA, RCC, CCC, CT

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Everyone comes to counselling with a variety of lived experiences that I treat with compassion and curiosity. Each new individual client and couple comes with a story that is unique to them. This story includes elements of culture, family background, sexual orientation, gender identity, religious background, experiences with social norms, and so much more. I work with each person to create an environment that is safe for them to explore their lives, difficulties, and strengths. Together we create goals that guide a journey toward wellness. I always feel honoured when clients choose to see me.
I work with teenage and adult clients desiring personal growth, experiencing interpersonal difficulties, or more specifically struggling with trauma, PTSD, chronic pain, depression, suicidal thinking, anxiety, grief and loss, and more. I work with couples and those in diverse relationship structures who are struggling to determine their right way forward, looking for deeper connection, better communication, or even trying to determine whether they want to remain together. I also provide consultation and supervision to currently-practicing counsellors and therapists.
I welcome individuals and couples from all walks of life and backgrounds, including members of the LGBTQ+ community and non-traditional relationships. I work from an attachment-based, emotionally-focused, and person-centered perspective.
I have my Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology from the University of British Columbia. I have certifications as a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC #13099) and as a CCC-Supervisor with the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association, as a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC #15459) with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors, and as a Counselling Therapist (CT #1797) with The Association of Counselling Therapy of Alberta. I am also part of the clinical team with Wounded Warriors Canada, where I help deliver group programs to members of the Canadian military and first responders in the following programs: COPE (Couples Overcoming PTSD Everyday), TRP 1 & 2 (Trauma Resiliency Program), SRP (Spousal Resiliency Program), and SFP (Surviving Families Program).
I have completed the following trainings: Externship and Core Skills training in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and Level 1 and 2 training in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Individuals; basic training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy with the International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation (ISSTD); and basic certification in trauma therapy with the ISSTD. I have also completed training in supervision through the University of Lethbridge and am a registered CCC-Supervisor.
It is always my honour to get to know the people who come to me and their stories, to learn what life is like them, and then become a part of how they write their story moving forward. Whether you are an individual or couple looking to change or improve something in your life, or a therapist looking for supervision and support, I would be privileged to be a part of helping you create your story of wellness.

Location

Office 1 - #101 8047 199 St

Kate Mackay

M.Ed., RCC

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Email: kate@lavendercounselling.com
Kate is a relationally centered counsellor who will meet you with warmth, understanding, and compassion. With a trauma informed approach, Kate hopes to support you in developing a stronger relationship with yourself.
Kate works with adults and adolescents and is able to support you with work in the following areas:
  • -anxiety & depression
  • -stress & life transitions
  • -relationship issues
  • -trauma
  • -grief & loss
  • -personal development & growth
  • -academic/school related issues
  • -emotional distress
Kate provides counselling services from both Lavender Counselling Langley and Vancouver offices.

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 Street & #506 402 W Pender Vancouver

Carolynn Turner

MA, RCC, CCC, CT

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Carolynn is not currently accepting new individual clients and she no longer maintains a waitlist. She is currently accepting new clients as participants in group therapy or with counsellors seeking support through the consent agreement process.
Life is a complicated series of twists and turns. At some points along this road we can struggle and at other points it can feel as though life couldn’t get any better. Even when life does feel good we might be waiting for the other shoe to drop. We can find ourselves feeling out of control, anxious, or overwhelmed, or numb and flat. These experiences can lead to anxiety, depression, and a loss of connection with ourselves and others. Working with a counsellor can help you to re-connect with yourself and improve relationships in your life. It can allow you to embrace your life, uncover your dreams and feel more energized so you can engage more effectively with others (partners, children, family, colleagues). Counselling is not limited to times of struggle. It can be incredibly useful to have a neutral third party to walk alongside us as we navigate the twists and turns of our lives. Having someone to cheer with us can be equally as important as having someone beside us when life feels out of control.
Group therapy is not often a go-to consideration for many potential clients. It can be unthinkable that working with other ‘strangers’ and sharing intimate parts of your life with others going through similar things might actually help you process through your situation more effectively. Coming into a group therapy setting can leave clients feeling less alone and isolated and more gentle with themselves as they recognize they are not alone in their way of coping.
I began my career in business and spent 9 years working for a local grocery chain. I started off bagging groceries and eventually resigned from my Head Office position when I realized it was not fulfilling my heart. I resigned and moved on to complete my B.Ed. at UBC and spent the next 11 years teaching high school English. I quickly realized that I spent more time at the counsellor’s office trying to figure out how to support kids than I cared to spend on ensuring their grammar was up to par. So, back to school I went. I graduated with an MA in Counselling Psychology from UBC in 2013. During my graduate degree I worked for the former President of Anxiety Canada in her personal research lab and conducted my own novel research in the field on social anxiety in adolescents. I spent time counselling in schools for those struggling with intensive behaviour, or severe mental health (Category H in the school system) who struggled to integrate into a classroom setting and who were part of our District’s Social Development Programs. I have served as a member of the Board for the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC), and subsequently as the VP and Chair for Region 5 and more recently as the Fraser Health Representative. I enjoy being part of the counselling profession’s political landscape.
I am proud to be the Founder and Director of Lavender Counselling where we are committed to exceptional clinical training and care for our clients. I thrive on creating a space where clinicians and clients alike feel safe and cared for in a way that aligns with trauma informed principles. I am an Approved Clinical Supervisor(ACS) with BCACC and a CCS with the CCPA. I have provided supervision and consultation to counselling students and professionals for close to 10 years and more recently have begun supporting counsellors going through consent agreements with their professional association.
I am also part of the Program Development & Clinical Teams for Wounded Warriors Canada where I have had the privilege to co-develop both the SRP (Spouses’ Resiliency Program for those Living alongside military, veterans and first responders with PTSD) and the SSP (Surviving Family’s Program for those whose immediate family members were killed in the line of duty or who died by suicide). As part of the clinical team I deliver the following group therapy programs: COPE (Couples Overcoming PTSD Everyday), TRP 1 & 2 (Trauma Resiliency Program), SRP and SFP. I work with a broad range of client issues including: PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, traumatic grief, postpartum transition, self harm, suicidal ideation, self esteem, emotion regulation, life transitions, and the effects of childhood emotional neglect in adults. I have trained with Dr. Les Greenberg, the primary developer of Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) and an originator for EFT couple's therapy; I have trained extensively in counsellor ethics and have completed EMDR Basic Certification. I look forward to hearing from you and helping you to embrace your life more fully.

Ali Alexander

MA, RCC, CCC

Book At times, life can feel overwhelming and exhausting. Pain and uncertainty are unavoidable parts of life, yet these experiences can leave us feeling stuck and disconnected from ourselves, others, and from our sense of hope in life. My aim is not only for you to find healing and growth, but to experience an increased sense of calmness and joy so that you can engage in life in a more meaningful and fulfilling way. My hope is to provide you with a space of empathy, warmth, and acceptance where you can explore unsafe experiences in a safe place.
I have a deep love of the outdoors, and often find renewal in hiking, biking, and camping in our beautiful part of the world. I have spent many years in high level athletics, navigating both the excitement and demands of that environment. I love to read and am drawn to stories in all forms. I find meaning and beauty in holding the experiences that have brought you to this point in your story.
I operate from an emotion focused, trauma-informed, body centered approach, that encourages a sense of collaboration and curiosity throughout the process. I work with teenagers and adults dealing with a broad range of issues including, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma, life transition, shame, emotional regulation, and sports related stress and anxiety. My education includes a Bachelor in Arts in Psychology (BA) with a Certificate in Human Services, and Masters in Counselling Psychology (MA) from Trinity Western University. I have certifications as a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and as a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC).
It takes an incredible amount of courage to enter into the counselling process, and I would be honoured to be a part of this chapter of your story.

Location

Office 1 - #101 8047 199 St

Master’s Level Practicum Student

Zahra Remtulla

Master's Level Practicum Student

  • M.Ed.
  • Teens | Adults

Stephen Anderson (he/him)

Master's Level Practicum Student

  • Student, Masters of Counselling
  • Teens | Adults

Zahra Remtulla

Master's Level Practicum Student

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I feel privileged to support teenage and adult individuals in navigating the sometimes messy yet rewarding processes of self-exploration and self-development. I believe that people often possess the answers they seek but may need support to confront and explore experiences or parts of themselves they fear facing. I value the therapeutic relationship as a transformative space where relational presence can foster healing, growth, and self-discovery. I strive to bring empathy and validation to my role as a counsellor with the goal of empowering clients to access their inner wisdom, clarify their values, and make authentic and aligned choices.
I also believe it is so important to acknowledge the external challenges posed by systemic injustices and societal constraints, which can make living in alignment with one’s values more difficult. I aim to offer a safe space to explore the impacts of these influences, with special interest in supporting clients with attachment wounds and those navigating the complexities of a world that is not designed to include everyone equally. I hope to help clients identify what they can control and support them in creating meaningful change in their lives.
I am currently in a Masters of Education program at the University of British Columbia, specializing in Counselling Psychology. Over the course of my studies, I have completed training in Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Relational Empathy, Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Understanding Aromanticism and Asexuality, and Grief and Loss. I strongly believe in the importance of ongoing training and professional development and look forward to continuing to learn.
I also have a Masters in Public Health from UBC, as well as a Bachelor of Education from the University of Victoria and a Bachelor of Arts from Duke University. Prior to pursuing a career path in counselling, I worked as a high school and elementary school teacher, as well as in program coordination and research roles within the fields of Indigenous post-secondary education, Indigenous-led conservation, and Indigenous mental health.
When not at work, I love spending time in nature, whether hiking through the forest or paddling on the ocean. I find joy and balance in staying active outdoors and cherish the sense of connection to myself and others that it brings.
I am honoured to live, work, and play on the territories of the xʷməθkʷəy̓əm (Musqueam), Sḵwx̱wú7mesh (Squamish), and səlilwətaɬ (Tsleil-Waututh) peoples and to now be practicing counselling on the lands of the q̓ʷɑ:n̓ƛ̓ən̓ (Kwantlen), q̓ic̓əy̓ (Katzie), Máthxwi (Matsqui), and se’mya’me (Semiahmoo) First Nations.
I look forward to meeting you and working with you!

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604-455-8399

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 St

Stephen Anderson (he/him)

Master's Level Practicum Student

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You’ve made it here—and you have already taken many courageous steps to get this far. Life is full of so much struggle and heartache. A difficult relationship, a painful loss, an unexpected change of plans, an abandoned dream, or an unclear future—these are just some of the countless challenges we face over a lifetime. Sometimes, it can be helpful to have company along the way.
Finding the right therapist isn’t always easy, and beginning your therapy journey can be scary. It’s important for you to feel trust and acceptance from a therapist in a space where you can be heard and understood. It is vital that you feel respected as the expert of your own experience and story.
As a therapist in training, this is my aim. I am committed to offering you compassion, authenticity, and non-judgmental curiosity as you navigate your life. Together, we can explore how to connect with your inner wisdom to support transformation bringing comfort, healing, and wellness.
I work with teens, adults, and helping professionals, including educators and those in caregiving roles. With over 10 years of teaching experience, I have a unique understanding of diverse learning profiles as well as experience with burnout and compassion fatigue. I am passionate about supporting teenagers to explore issues of self-worth, identity, and healthy relationships.
There is room for everyone in this healing work, and I enthusiastically welcome individuals from all backgrounds, including those belonging to the 2SLGBTQ+ community, a community to which I belong.
I am currently completing a Master of Counselling degree at City University in Canada, specializing in Counselling Psychology.
With humility, I am privileged to learn and practice on the unceded territories of the xʷməθkʷəy̓əm (Musqueam), Sḵwx̱wú7mesh (Squamish), səlilwətaɬ (Tsleil-Waututh), q̓ʷɑn̓ƛ̓ən̓ (Kwantlen), q̓ic̓əy̓ (Katzie), Máthxwi (Matsqui), and se’mya’me (Semiahmoo) peoples. My practice is rooted in a commitment to reconciliation and building a healing relationship with these lands and their peoples.

Phone

604-455-8399

Location

Office 2 - #360 8029 199 Street & #506 402 W Pender Vancouver
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